Every New Year’s Eve Brian and I discuss our goals for the coming year. We plan everything from home improvement projects to vacations to what projects I want to sew or what things we want to be involved in. Last year’s list was long and there were many things that we didn’t get to, but that’s okay. There were many we did. And of course we plan these things having no idea what Life will throw at us.

Last night I was pondering what I might put on 2008′s list, and I started thinking about 2007 and what that brought. What am I proud of about 2007? What do I wish we had done differently? I am going to use those as a jumping off point to write my 2008 list.

Here are some of those things:
* We survived. We came through the loss of Carla and some other family troubles with grace and strength. If nothing else we are not bitter because of those things. Grieving, yes. Bitter, no. And ever grateful for what we had and still have.
* We persevered through losses and hard work. Through homeschooling (which was very difficult).
* We continue to strengthen our family and our marriage. Constantly talking through problems and concerns. Always trying to do better.
* We travelled, and it was wonderful. Such great memories.
* We are starting to look beyond this year and starting to plan for longer term goals.

Things I want to do differently:
* I want to think about the things we put on our calendar and not just put things on because of obligation. Even those things should be deliberately thought out. And I will not feel guilty when I do not do everything everyone else wants me to.
* I want to relax more with my kids, with my schedules and with making everything perfect.
* I want to carve out time and regularly read my Bible, pray and make time for creativity.
* I want to be more content with what I have. I am not the kind of person who wants every new thing…far from it. But I still find myself obsessed with getting things that have gotten into my mind. I want to let go and be content with what I already have.

I think 2008 is going to be another good year. I hope and pray so.

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